20 Special Notes to Self #HappyBirthDayUgaman
It’s always a
special moment to celebrate the day you were born but its most important to
find out the reason why. Today 28th March marks a special moment as I
close the gap in my late twenties. I am glad that I have been able to learn and
find out the things that I passionately care about, in fact I have even
invested in some of my passions which means my twenties have not gone to a
waste. Here are 20 things I would advise everyone to check out;
THREAD:
A Note to Self on this Special Day.
#HappyBirthdayUgaman
1. The
biggest asset you have got in your twenties is Self Awareness.
2. You have
not been so successful at relationships but its ok, invest more time and make
time for everything.
3. Life will
hit you hard at times but you must make sure that the last thing to do is
Giving Up.
4. Spend (at
least) 1 weekend /month away from others, working on a form of art (with no
expectation of economic gain)
5. Sell your
TV (and cut your cable) ,You are not missing a thing on TV and can catch up
later.
6. Spend an
hour each day contributing to the industry that is in line with your passions.
7. Read at
least one book a month, preferably non-fiction. Learn about new fields you have
no exposure to.
8. Grow up:
accept not everything you were told or taught is true. Don’t cling to
falsehoods or fairy tales.
9. Hustle
and work hard every day but most importantly do not forget to Pray.
10. Never
pray or quietly hope for something to happen, make it happen. Faith without
action is futile.
11. Write a
blog. The metacognitive exercise of blogging is powerful. A bit like going to
the gym for your brain.
12. Be
remarkable at work, dress however you want. “Dressing for success” is bullshit,
be comfortable.
13. Sell
your car, move to a city that’s not your hometown on foot or bicycle, its more
social.
14. Seek out
a mentor (and be one) . Find someone in your industry willing to share their
experiences with.
15. Speaking
of change …love it, live it, embrace it. Fearing something that’s constant is
illogical.
16. Make
peace with your mortality, live a good & virtuous life,being true to your
nature and helping others around you.
17. Make
moves career-wise. Certainly do not burn bridges, be sure you’ve made impact at
any company you’ve been at.
18. Never
look back in regret — move on to the next thing.
19. Embrace failure. Every time you fail, you
learn something and you are better prepared for the next move in life
I know what
you’re thinking: “hey, this was only 19 pieces of advice!” That’s on purpose.
The 20th is open to you, feel free to leave it as a comment — I’m curious to
hear what you would add.
By Mwebya Fred
20. In everything you do, try to leave an impact. Make a difference. Strive to go beyond expectations. That's the only way people will remember you.
ReplyDeleteThank You so much Kennedy, I really appreciate our friendship and the kind advice. May God bless You.
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